You’re not scared of the camera, you’re scared of something else

A lot of clients tell me they want me as their dating profile photographer but they don’t think they’re photogenic…

I mean, come on, have you seen my work? If I can make a pig look good, I think we’re in good hands here.

Online Dating Photography of a pic
Actual photo I took of an actual pig

Hiring an online dating photographer isn’t the problem. The real issue here isn’t just about photogenic-ness, it’s about fear. Fear that girls won’t like them, fear of rejection and the hurt that comes with it. It’s like a domino effect of fears, isn’t it?

However, even that’s not the core of the matter. What these clients are really worried about is that if girls reject them, it will confirm their belief that they don’t deserve love, companionship, sex and all the good stuff in life. It’s like the ultimate existential crisis. The ultimate fuсk you from the universe.

Well, I’m no therapist or a coach, but I’ve got some good news for you folks. Becoming worthy is like going to the local strip club – you can do it two ways. You can either drive yourself there, or you can call an uber.

Similarly, you can either work directly on your emotions, your mind, and all that jazz, or you can take the shortcut and go directly for the end result. In this case, it’s girls, love, companionship, etc.

It’s easier to feel you’re worthy of something when you have it right in front of you.

Don’t let fear hold you back from the good stuff in life. Remember, even a pig can look good with the right lighting. And if a pig can do it, you can too!

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